Taoni 22 - MB & GNTD

Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.

Love and relationships are important aspects of life, especially for younger generations navigating friendships, family dynamics, dating, and social connections. In a world where love is often portrayed in a confusing, fleeting, or superficial way, the Bible offers clear and timeless wisdom on what love truly means and how to build healthy relationships.

Here are seven Bible verses that will help guide you through the complexities of love and relationships.

1. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 — “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

In a world that sometimes focuses on instant gratification and fleeting emotions, the Bible reminds us that love is more about giving than receiving. Love isn’t just a feeling; it’s a choice to act with kindness and humility, even when it’s hard.

2. Matthew 22:37-39 — “Jesus replied: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”

Jesus simplifies love and relationships into two commandments: loving God first and then loving others. When your relationships are rooted in love for God, they will naturally reflect a love that values and respects others.

3. Proverbs 17:17 — “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.”

Friendships and community are crucial, especially for the younger generation navigating through life’s challenges. Genuine friends love in every season, not just when it’s easy or convenient. They are there to support you during difficult times, and they offer strength and encouragement when you need it most.

4. 1 John 4:18 — “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.”

Many young people experience anxiety, fear, or insecurity in relationships, whether it’s fear of rejection, fear of not being enough, or fear of vulnerability. But this verse reminds us that real love, the kind of love God gives, casts out fear. In healthy relationships, love should create a sense of safety, not fear or insecurity. When you’re in a relationship that reflects God’s love, you will feel valued and cherished, not afraid or anxious.

5. Ephesians 4:2-3 — “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.”

In a world where arguments and conflict are common, these verses from Ephesians encourage us to practice humility, patience, and unity in our relationships. It’s not always easy, but maintaining peace and working toward understanding are key aspects of healthy connections. Love isn’t about always being right; sometimes it’s about listening, understanding, and choosing peace over conflict.

6. Song of Solomon 8:4 — “Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.”

For young people, particularly in the context of dating and romantic relationships, this verse offers wisdom about timing and patience. Culture often pressures young people to rush into relationships or equates physical attraction with love. However, the Bible encourages us to wait for the right timing, to allow love to grow naturally and genuinely, without rushing into anything prematurely. This ensures that relationships are based on genuine connection and mutual respect.

7. Romans 12:10 — “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”

Instead of asking, “What can I get out of this relationship?” we are encouraged to honor and respect others, putting their needs ahead of our own. True love is about devotion and commitment, not just convenience or personal gain. When you prioritize honoring others, you build relationships that are strong, meaningful, and lasting.

Conclusion

Navigating love and relationships as a young person can be challenging, especially in a world filled with mixed messages about what love is and how relationships should work. However, these Bible verses provide a clear and countercultural view of love: one that is selfless, patient, kind, and enduring. Love isn’t just about feelings, it’s about action, commitment, and putting others before yourself. When your relationships are rooted in these principles, they will flourish in ways that bring fulfillment, joy, and peace. So, take these truths with you as you navigate love and relationships, always remembering that God’s love is the foundation of all healthy connections.

1 Liku kado onjine ayani orivoya kadopara ndrani a'do ŋgaamba be drisi; ago yauni orivoya ndrani mo'di kode logo läguläguro drisi.

2 Ŋgadriamba'ba ndi lemeri'ba be riti orivoya ojoojoro; tana OPI 'ba ànya ni riti.

3 Lidri se tavousu kado be kondre rriti te ikyivoya diru ndi ni kigyesi, oko 'dise tausu kado ako ci ṛo kigye ago ezaru ndi ni rigye.

4 Päläti o'do trwe ro ago OPI ororo ni ŋgadriamba, taoro ndi ori madaro be.

5 Ondro ka'do nyulu adri miro gindi, nyana mi lozo ni kukyi ndi abari se kabe takozi'bai uruna liti dri 'do yasi.

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6 Nyembe ŋgwa ori se be ndäri orine 'do ya, 'dooko ondro nda komba te oko nda odina ru ko ni kigyesi.

7 Lidri se ŋgadriamba be kayi ni lemeri'bai miri; ago yuŋguuru'ba orivoya iyeäṛi yuŋguozo'ba ro.

8 Ndase ka kwari taŋgyeako ro orina ayani, olona iro gialo rriti, 'dieza ndaro kyilasi 'do okyena ndi.

9 Ndase kabe drì ndaro e'be uŋbo ŋga ozovoya 'do äṛuna ndi; tana nda ka ŋgaonya ndaro la'dona ati'bai be.

10 Nyana 'dise taofaekye 'do tesi, 'dooko kaladiṛi a'dona i'do ago kalaope, ndi la'da be okyena ndi.

11 'Dise kulute ata ya ŋgye si ago yauni si ayani, 'bädri'ba a'dona ndi bereazi ndaro.

12 OPI ka 'dise tavouni be gagana ni oko nda ka ta ata taŋgyeako'bai ro pere ni.

13 Mano se tovo ro ka ori 'bäru, tana nda ekye ondro ka'do yifote tesi ibi osina yi ndi.

14 Ta ata toko se ronyiro ro orivoya abari yi ka ànya se OPI orivoya kyilaro sina iyi uruna.

15 Ŋgàga ka tase cini amaamaro iyi loyena aya, oko co'da o'bi ànya zele kani ànya emba taoyene kadoro.

16 Ndase ka ati'bai eza a'dozana ndäri ŋgadriamba be kode ka ŋgapäṛi ozo toto ŋgadriamba'bai ri, a'dona kpa lemeri'ba ro.

Ata 'butenätu tavouni si

17 Miga bi, ago nyeri tase lidri tavouni'bai katayibe ono. Nyetenyi ta ŋgaembaro maro, 18 tana nya'dona ndi yai'dwesi ondro ka'do miyi tana te ndi ago mirite tana atana rri owo. 19 Ma ni tana embana ämiri ondro no; tana miyi ta robe OPI ya. 20 Megyi ata 'butenätu kwoi te ämiri, se tauni ndi tavoozo kado be orivoya kigye, 21 ago embana taŋgye ndi ta'diri be ndi ämiri. Tana 'dooko mìzana tadri ŋgye ndi ànya se kozoyi ami be ri.

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22 Nyoco ati'bai ko tana ànya ka'dobe ati'bai ro 'do ro ago nyalaga taŋgye ànya se kabe edre ŋgaopa aza ako vure ya 'do ro ko. 23 OPI opena vure ànyaro ni ago 'dise kabe ozionya adri ànyaro lomvo iyi OPI onyana ozi kpa adri ànyaro lomvo.

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24 Mi'be bereazi ko lidri se kabe oŋga ndriŋwa kyilaro 'do be ca nyaba ko lidri se ozibe be, 25 tana ukyi miru taoye ànyaro 'da ago nyabaṛi andivo miro 'da rriti si.

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26 Mi'ba tao'ba ko yuŋgu 'di to azaro ozone, ca nya'do ko driute'ba ro ta yuŋgu rota. 27 Tana ondro ka'do nya'dote ŋga aza ako ozone, 'dooko ànya urunayi ca kitapara miro kpa.

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28 Miswe kishwe uku se zutui miro kosibe 'do ko cu alona.

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29 'Dise kabe losioye kadoro 'do induru na ndi 'bädri'bai ri; nda induruna ko lidri wayiro ri.

1 If you have to choose between a good reputation and great wealth, choose a good reputation.

2 The rich and the poor have this in common: the Lord made them both.

3 Sensible people will see trouble coming and avoid it, but an unthinking person will walk right into it and regret it later.

4 Obey the Lord, be humble, and you will get riches, honor, and a long life.

5 If you love your life, stay away from the traps that catch the wicked along the way.

6 Teach children how they should live, and they will remember it all their life.

7 Poor people are slaves of the rich. Borrow money and you are the lender's slave.

8 If you plant the seeds of injustice, disaster will spring up, and your oppression of others will end.

9 Be generous and share your food with the poor. You will be blessed for it.

10 Get rid of a conceited person, and then there will be no more arguments, quarreling, or name-calling.

11 If you love purity of heart and graciousness of speech, the king will be your friend.

12 The Lord sees to it that truth is kept safe by disproving the words of liars.

13 Lazy people stay at home; they say a lion might get them if they go outside.

14 Adultery is a trap—it catches those with whom the Lord is angry.

15 Children just naturally do silly, careless things, but a good spanking will teach them how to behave.

16 If you make gifts to rich people or oppress the poor to get rich, you will become poor yourself.

The Thirty Wise Sayings

17 Listen, and I will teach you what the wise have said. Study their teachings, 18 and you will be glad if you remember them and can quote them. 19 I want you to put your trust in the Lord; that is why I am going to tell them to you now. 20 I have written down thirty sayings for you. They contain knowledge and good advice, 21 and will teach you what the truth really is. Then when you are sent to find it out, you will bring back the right answer.

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22 Don't take advantage of the poor just because you can; don't take advantage of those who stand helpless in court. 23 The Lord will argue their case for them and threaten the life of anyone who threatens theirs.

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24 Don't make friends with people who have hot, violent tempers. 25 You might learn their habits and not be able to change.

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26 Don't promise to be responsible for someone else's debts. 27 If you should be unable to pay, they will take away even your bed.

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28 Never move an old property line that your ancestors established.

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29 Show me someone who does a good job, and I will show you someone who is better than most and worthy of the company of kings.