Marriage is the foundation for the Christian family. Husband and wife and by God’s grace blessed with children. Whether you hope to marry one day or are already married it’s good to go to the Bible and learn about marriage.

1. Genesis 2:24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Marriage is mentioned already in creation. Whether you are already married or not, here are Bible verses to guide you to what the Bible says about marriage.

2. 1 Corinthians 7:2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.

There are many kinds of temptations in the world. To be married is to give our love and loyalty to our husband or wife.

3. Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

In a Christian marriage the husband is to love his wife as Christ loved us. This is to love even when it’s not deserved, unconditionally.

4. Colossians 3:18-19 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.

Love between husband and wife includes for the husband to be gentle and giving himself up for his wife, and for the wife to submit to and respect her husband.

5. Exodus 20:14 You shall not commit adultery.

Loyalty and trust are fundamental in all relationships. In marriage that means to forsake all others and not have any other intimate relationships.

6. Matthew 5:27-28 You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Jesus taught us that it’s not only the act of adultery that is breaking the commandment, but even lustful thoughts.

7. Ephesians 4:32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

Although this verse speaks of the love between all Christians, it also applies to husband and wife. Forgive each other and be kind.

Here are a couple of reminders for you about loving one another. Be inspired to go out and spread love to those around you.

1. 1 Corinthians 16:14 Let all that you do be done in love.

Love is at the very core of our faith. We shouldn’t love only at certain times. Everything we do should be done in love.

2. John 13:34 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.

Jesus sets the example for us. He loves us, despite our flaws and shortcomings. We are also called to love one another.

3. Romans 12:10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.

Christians are brothers and sisters as adopted children of God. Therefore, we are to love one another like we love our family.

4. Hebrews 10:24 And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works

You can set an example to people around you, by showing love. Inspire others to love and do good.

5. Matthew 5:43-44 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you

Jesus tells us that we should not limit our love to those who love us, but even those who persecute us. To love and pray for our enemy or persecutor is a challenge in loving one another.

6. Luke 6:31 And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.

Don’t wait for others to do good and show love. Express your love by doing good first.

7. Matthew 22:39 And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.

The greatest commandment is to love God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. Jesus says that all the law and the prophets depend on these two.

In times of sadness, it’s important to turn to God and find comfort in His Word. Here are some attitudes to adopt:

• Pray: ask God to help us through this trial and to give us the strength and comfort we need. “Have no anxiety about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” – Philippians 4:6
• Read the Bible: look for verses that bring us comfort and hope, and meditate on their meaning. “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teach and admonish one another in all wisdom, and sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs with thankfulness in your hearts to God.” – Colossians 3:16
• Turn other Christians: share our sadness with our brothers and sisters in Christ and receive their support and prayers. “For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them.” – Matthew 18:20
• Remember that God is always present and will never abandon us. He is able to turn our sadness into joy and help us through every trial.  “teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, to the close of the age.” – Matthew 28:20
• Show gratitude: despite sadness, remember God’s many blessings in our lives and give thanks. “give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:18

By adopting these attitudes, we can find comfort and hope in times of sorrow, knowing that God is with us and will sustain us in all circumstances.

The Hebrew word translated as “peace” is “shalom”. It means more than the opposite of conflict. It’s about being complete and safe. This is why we ultimately only can find peace in God. Without God we are not complete and not at peace.

1. Psalm 34:14 Turn away from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it. 

You have a choice in your life. When you are in a conflict, do you seek peace? Take the first step and reach out to anyone you are not at peace with and seek peace.

2. Matthew 5:9 Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.

There is blessing and happiness in being a peacemaker. As children of God we are called to seek peace.

3. Romans 12:18 If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.

We know there are conflicts and troublemakers in the world. But the Bible tells us to do what we can to live in peace with everyone.

4. Isaiah 55:12 For you shall go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and the hills before you shall break forth into singing, and all the trees of the field shall clap their hands.

When you walk with God in peace, everything is different. There may be conflict around you, but worldly conflict and troubles can’t overcome the peace of God.

5. Romans 14:19 So then let us pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding.

Actively work for peace, not just for your own sake, but also to build up others around you.

6. 2 Thessalonians 3:16 Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times in every way. The Lord be with you all.

The Bible wishes for you, and for all to have peace. May God be with you, so that your life will be at peace and complete.

7. Numbers 6:24-26 The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.

The priestly blessing tells us that in God’s presence there is peace. Seek God and you shall find him. God bless you.

Are you hurting right now? Know that the Word of God can speak to you in every situation of your life. Here are some reminders for you.

1. Psalm 34:18 The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.

Remember this, you are not hurting because God has left you, or is far away. God is near. Invite him in your life, especially when you are hurting.

2. John 11:35 Jesus wept.

When Jesus saw the grief that people had when Lazarus had died, his love and compassion for us made him cry. This is our God, who feels with us, who weeps with us when we are hurting and who smiles with us when we rejoice.

3. Matthew 5:4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.

God doesn’t want you to hurt or mourn. There is comfort.

4. Matthew 11:28-30 Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

Give your pain and hurt to Jesus. He doesn’t want you to carry it, but will give you peace instead.

5. John 16:33 I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.

Jesus doesn’t promise us that everything in this world will be fine, quite the opposite, there will be hardship. That’s when you need to turn to Jesus, because he has overcome the world

6. Matthew 6:14-15 For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

Here is something challenging when we are hurting. To have peace, find it in your heart to forgive the person who hurt you. Forgiveness is not earned or deserved, but given anyway, just like God forgives us.

7. Revelation 21:4 He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.

Ultimately, we live with the hope that one day there will be no more pain, no more crying. One day we will be with Jesus in the new Jerusalem. There is an end to pain, hurting, suffering. But there is no end to God’s love and grace.