Wives and Husbands
1 In the same way you wives must submit yourselves to your husbands, so that if any of them do not believe God's word, your conduct will win them over to believe. It will not be necessary for you to say a word, 2 because they will see how pure and reverent your conduct is. 3 You should not use outward aids to make yourselves beautiful, such as the way you fix your hair, or the jewelry you put on, or the dresses you wear. 4 Instead, your beauty should consist of your true inner self, the ageless beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of the greatest value in God's sight. 5 For the devout women of the past who placed their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful by submitting themselves to their husbands. 6 Sarah was like that; she obeyed Abraham and called him her master. You are now her daughters if you do good and are not afraid of anything.
7 In the same way you husbands must live with your wives with the proper understanding that they are more delicate than you. Treat them with respect, because they also will receive, together with you, God's gift of life. Do this so that nothing will interfere with your prayers.
Suffering for Doing Right
8 To conclude: you must all have the same attitude and the same feelings; love one another, and be kind and humble with one another. 9 Do not pay back evil with evil or cursing with cursing; instead, pay back with a blessing, because a blessing is what God promised to give you when he called you. 10 As the scripture says,
“If you want to enjoy life
and wish to see good times,
you must keep from speaking evil
and stop telling lies.
11 You must turn away from evil and do good;
you must strive for peace with all your heart.
12 For the Lord watches over the righteous
and listens to their prayers;
but he opposes those who do evil.”
13 Who will harm you if you are eager to do what is good? 14 But even if you should suffer for doing what is right, how happy you are! Do not be afraid of anyone, and do not worry. 15 But have reverence for Christ in your hearts, and honor him as Lord. Be ready at all times to answer anyone who asks you to explain the hope you have in you, 16 but do it with gentleness and respect. Keep your conscience clear, so that when you are insulted, those who speak evil of your good conduct as followers of Christ will become ashamed of what they say. 17 For it is better to suffer for doing good, if this should be God's will, than for doing evil. 18 For Christ died for sins once and for all, a good man on behalf of sinners, in order to lead you to God. He was put to death physically, but made alive spiritually, 19 and in his spiritual existence he went and preached to the imprisoned spirits. 20 These were the spirits of those who had not obeyed God when he waited patiently during the days that Noah was building his boat. The few people in the boat—eight in all—were saved by the water, 21 which was a symbol pointing to baptism, which now saves you. It is not the washing off of bodily dirt, but the promise made to God from a good conscience. It saves you through the resurrection of Jesus Christ, 22 who has gone to heaven and is at the right side of God, ruling over all angels and heavenly authorities and powers.
نصائح للمتزوّجين
1 وكذلِكَ أنتُنّ أيّتُها النّساءُ، اَخضَعنَ لأزواجِكُنّ، حتى إذا كانَ فيهِم مَنْ يَرفُضونَ الإيمانَ بِكلامِ اللهِ، اَستَمالَتهُم سِيرَتُكُنّ مِنْ دونِ حاجَةٍ إلى الكلامِ، 2 عِندَما يَرَونَ ما في سِيرَتِكُنّ مِنْ عَفافٍ وتَقوى. 3 لا تكُنْ زينَتُكُنّ خارجِيّةً بضفرِ الشعرِ والتحلّي بالذهب والتأنّقِ في المَلابِسِ، 4 بَلْ داخِلِـيّةً بِما في باطِنِ القَلبِ مِنْ زينَةِ نَفسٍ وديعَةٍ مُطمَئِنّةٍ لا تَفسُدُ، وثَمَنُها عِندَ اللهِ عظيمٌ. 5 كذلِكَ كانتِ النّساءُ القِدّيساتُ المُتّكِلاتُ على اللهِ يتَزَيّنّ فيما مضَى خاضِعاتٍ لأزواجِهُنّ، 6 مِثلَ سارَةَ التي كانَت تُطيعُ إبراهيمَ وتَدعوهُ سَيّدَها. وأنتُنّ الآنَ بَناتُها إنْ أحسَنتُنّ التّصرّفَ غَيرَ خائِفاتٍ مِنْ شيءٍ.
7 وأنتُم، أيّها الرّجالُ، عيشوا معَ نِسائِكُم عارِفينَ أنّ المَرأةَ مَخلوقٌ أضعَفُ مِنكُم، وأكرِموهُنّ لأنّهُنّ شَريكاتٌ لكُم في ميراثِ نِعمَةِ الحَياةِ، فَلا يُعيقَ صَلَواتِكُم شيءٌ.
احتمال العذاب في عمل الخير
8 وبَعدُ، فليَكُنْ لكُم جميعًا وحدَةٌ في الرَأْيِ وعَطفٌ وإخاءٌ ورَأفَةٌ وتَواضُعٌ. 9 لا تَرُدّوا الشّرّ بِالشّرّ والشّتيمَةَ بالشّتيمَةِ، بَلْ بارِكوا فتَرِثوا البَرَكَةَ، لأنّكُم لهذا دُعيتُم. 10 فالكِتابُ يقولُ: «مَنْ أرادَ أنْ يُحِبّ الحياةَ ويَرى أيّامًا سعَيدَةً، فليُمسِكْ لِسانَهُ عَنِ الشّرّ وشَفَتَيهِ عَنِ المَكرِ في الكلامِ، 11 وليَبتَعِدْ عَنِ الشّرّ ويَعمَلِ الخَيرَ وليَطلُبِ السّلامَ ويَسعى إلَيهِ، 12 لأنّ عينَ الرّبّ على الأبرارِ وأُذُنَهُ تُصغي إلى دُعائِهِم. أمّا وجهُهُ فيَميلُ عَنِ الذينَ يَعمَلونَ الشّرّ».
13 فمَنْ يُسيءُ إلَيكُم إذا كُنتُم حَريصينَ على الخَيرِ؟ 14 ولَو تَألّمتُم في سَبـيلِ الحَقّ، فهَنيئًا لكُم! لا تَخافوا مِنْ أحدٍ ولا تَضطَرِبوا، 15 بَلْ قَدّسوا المَسيحَ في قُلوبِكُم وكَرّموهُ رَبّا، وكونوا في كُلّ حينٍ مُستَعِدّينَ لِلرّدّ على كُلّ مَنْ يَطلُبُ مِنكُم دَليلاً على الرّجاءِ الذي فيكُم. 16 وليكُنْ ذلِكَ بِوَداعَةٍ واَحترامٍ، مُحافِظينَ على سلامَةِ ضَميرِكُم، حتى إذا عُومِلتُم بسُوءٍ، يَخزى الذينَ عابوا حُسنَ سيرَتِكُم في المَسيحِ. 17 فَمِنَ الأفضَلِ أنْ تتَألّموا وأنتُم تَعمَلونَ الخَيرَ، إنْ كانَ ذلِكَ مَشيئَة اللهِ، مِنْ أنْ تتألّموا وأنتُم تَعمَلونَ الشّرّ. 18 فالمَسيحُ نَفسُهُ ماتَ مرّةً واحدَةً مِنْ أجلِ الخَطايا. ماتَ وهوَ البارّ مِنْ أجلِ الأشرارِ ليُقَرّبَكُم إلى اللهِ. ماتَ في الجَسَدِ، ولكِنّ اللهَ أحياهُ في الرّوحِ، 19 فاَنطلَقَ بِهذا الرّوحِ يُبَشّرُ الأرواحَ السّجينَةَ 20 التي تَمَرّدَت فيما مَضى، حينَ تَمَهّلَ صَبرُ اللهِ أيّامَ بَنى نُوحٌ الفُلْكَ فنَجا فيهِ بِالماءِ عدَدٌ قَليلٌ، أي ثمانِـيَةُ أشخاصٍ، 21 وكانَ هذا رَمزًا للمَعمودِيّةِ التي تُنَجّيكُمُ الآنَ، لا بإزالَةِ وسَخِ الجَسَدِ، بَلْ بِعَهدٍ صادِقِ النّـيّةِ معَ اللهِ بِقيامَةِ يَسوعَ المَسيحِ 22 الذي صَعِدَ إلى السّماءِ وهوَ عَنْ يَمينِ اللهِ تَخضَعُ لَه المَلائِكةُ والقُوّاتُ وأصحابُ السّلطانِ.